The Life

Since we reach the age of understanding things, we think that feelings and concepts (undefined to us yet) that exist for reasons whatsoever, they should complete their purpose – perfection – which is impossible for a human to do. We are full of mistakes, we are uncertain, others expect a lot from us, and we can’t be everywhere. That is us trying not to disappoint them, and in doing so, we lose control of time – the unit of life.

Love, Time, Death – the most important phenomenon in life. We feel for others, and we love them in our unique ways. Soon the Time passes very quickly, and then you think of death – leaving everything behind. Just some moments before the death, you think of all the things you have done and for what? 

So, right at this moment, when you are alive, living the life you only think of doing the right things, the right decisions that will lead you to not regret in that last moment of your life. 

Focusing on what is that we have right now? 

A healthy soul and body, relationship, work and to earn for living to the fullest.  It is a beautiful world out there to see and experience, to educate and to help others on their way. 

Doing all these at their right time and dividing our time on the basis of which things are most important to us, which actually makes us happy and stress-free is going to be the success factor of our lives. We either do for others and not think of ourselves just because we don't want to disappoint them; or since we believe they will get hurt.

But in reality, what if its temporary; and they will come around after some time? We should have focused on our most important things and problems, and that is what would have solved it in that time. 

Only then we will feel stress-free and advance in our lives, and yes! There is not a concept of life where we will sit back and leave everything behind, just because they are not good for us, and that they will cause stress to us. No, it is because we deny to face it. We should face it, and we make it work somehow.

The thing that we all search for and wish for is happiness. What is happiness?  

According to Epicurus;

“When you don’t have pain in your life, you have happiness in your life then.” 

Sometimes this pain is our own creation, a mirage created by our thoughts that we cannot get rid of. Think of illness; what if a small incident might lead to saving us from bigger disaster: that is what motivated us to help someone when they step in a state where we had suffered- God forbid. It makes us feel for others, and if we hadn't gone through it, we wouldn’t have felt the pain.

There are two concepts of life, one is – we take the actions right and don’t think of the result, the other is – we think of results and take the actions.

Right along the way, we all have the choice; It is on us which one to use and what to refuse.